Tuesday, November 23, 2021

November 23, 2021 | Side chat x RP with Bex

 SIGYN, 8:48 a.m.

Hiiii 😃

 

NATE 

Hey Xander? How come you'll sleep with Sebastian and Trent but not with me?

 

TRENT 

omg really? You've slept with every other man here besides Xander and Hoofs McKenzie.

 

NATE shrugs

 

FAUSTUS

 ...and me.

 

TRENT 

You're not a man, you're a Maus.

 

(9:56 a.m.) NATE stretches and rolls over into George 🥰

 

SIGYN

(11:17 a.m.) [snip baby video]

(12:29 p.m.)


[4-minute video chat ending at 12:33 p.m.]

 

FAUSTUS 

bold words from the man who has slept with everyone here aside from my DL.

 

TRENT

 Not everyone. Just the men.

 

NATE nips George's ear

 

XANDER looks over at Nate and his eyes furrow slightly

Because I am not all that interested in you, no offence. Bash is because he is my Bonded and I genuinely care for him. Trent...started out as a challenge and it was just fun...but..he is growing on me. 

*smirks*

 

GEORGE chuckles and hugs Nate tight and kisses him silly

 

NATE 

Oh, okay. 

*Kisses George back, smiling*

 Hey, love

 

TRENT cuddles up with Rebecca

 

GEORGE 

Hello handsome. How are you today?

 *snuggles*

 

REBECCA smiles and cuddling with her beloved

 Morning handsome.

 *kisses him*

 

NATE 

Eh. I'm better now that you're here 🥰 Apparently these two 

*motions to Sebastian* 

are thinking about getting a divorce.

 

SEBASTIAN

 There's nothing contentious. He just thinks I don't need him anymore.

 

TRENT nuzzles her

We just saw a pickup truck that said BLACKWOOD across the back, so that's funny too.

 

REBECCA

 Wait..what? 

*sits up and looks at Bash* 

What's going on?

 

LUCIFER 

He doesn't. He has Xander when his admin is here and Trent when she isn't.

 

XANDER sputters at hearing his name being called on this

But--but you are his husband! I would never seek to take that title away from you or take your place, no matter how much I love Bash.

 

LUCIFER 

It's all right. The deal was that I'd be with him until he no longer needed me. At the time I assumed it would be until Trent accepted him. Now he has Trent and you.

 

SEBASTIAN

 But I don't want to get divorced. Is this because of Blackwood?

 

FREYA looks up

Yea, shouldn't let that derail you either....

 

XANDER

 But...Bash doesn't handle rejection well and you know this....and I know he loves you still.

 

SEBASTIAN

 I mean, I get it... Your best friend hates me, surely that's not easy--

 

LUCIFER

 Mazikeen is my best friend.

 

CAT

 what are we missing? Whose best friend hates Bash?

 

SEBASTIAN

 ... Maze, still? Not Blackwood?

 

MAZE scoffs

 

LUCIFER 

No. He's a good friend, certainly, but that's all.

 

SEBASTIAN

 Is a divorce really what you want? 🥺

 

LUCIFER

 Isn't it what you want?

 

SEBASTIAN 

NO!

 

LUCIFER 

Oh. Well. That's a relief.

 

REBECCA looking back and forth

 I am so confused...

 

CAT snickers

 

SEBASTIAN 

Yeah, so am I!

*curls up in Luci's lap and gestures for Xander to join them*

 

REBECCA 

Perhaps you two should spend some time together and actually talk about this. There has to be a reason why Luci thinks you don't need him anymore...

 

1:00 p.m.

 

XANDER goes and kisses Bash's forehead and smiles faintly, before moving back to his seat

 I concurr with Rebecca...you two, together, need to talk this out. Without me... but I am still here...so don't worry.

 

SEBASTIAN

 ....

 

CAT

 It's not a bad thing. Just Luci might be feeling a little left out to suggest such a thing. Not saying he does....but still....you guys go talk

 

SEBASTIAN turns his back on the group and curls himself up tighter in Luci's lap

I've said all I need to say. I don't want a divorce. I don't want to leave you.

 

GEORGE 

I mean...valid. but still...underlaying issues if Luci suggested it. (says softly)

 

TRENT 

Speaking of which, Rebecca, are you happy?

 

REBECCA looks up at Trent

Yes, I am....why?

 

LUCIFER

 I suggested it because I thought I might be extraneous. It was always going to be up to you, my love.

 

SEBASTIAN 

Oh. I was keeping a bit of distance because I didn't want you to feel like you had to choose between being married to me and being friends with Blackwood.

 

TRENT 

Because I don't want to have to have that kind of discussion, where one of us thinks the other is unhappy and it's never addressed.

 

FREYA 

Why would being friends with my husband be any part of your guys's marriage?

 

REBECCA 

There were a few bumps in the road...but I think we addressed them, didn't we? (she asked softly)

 I mean...sharing isn't exactly easy for me at times, even now....but I make it work cause I love you.

 

SIGYN, 2:00 p.m.

//fucccccc Messenger just started skitzing out

//just now got it back online

 

SEBASTIAN 

Because his jealousy of me makes Lucifer uncomfortable and I just figured I should stay out of the way so Lucifer doesn't feel like he has to choose.

 

TRENT 

That's ridiculous. If he felt like he had to choose, obviously he would choose our brilliant and adorable Bashie 🥰

 

SEBASTIAN

 He doesn't call me that, but yes.

I just don't want him in that position.

 

TRENT 

I love you too. I don't know what I'd do without you, or our little bug, or my Bashie.

 

SIGYN, 2:31 p.m.

(2:53 p.m.)


BEX

I saw that one and died

 

SEBASTIAN 

the other cheerleaders were constantly annoyed with him for shit like this but I loved it

 

BEX

// yea messenger has been doing that me for days now. All of a sudden go crazy with like a million beings when we have already been chatting. Lol

 

SIGYN

//no because like I would open it and it would just close itself and not let me see my messages

 

BEX

Yea it does that too to me. Even more so if i wanted to send a vid or pic to you. I'd have to go thru the actual app. Bleh

 

SIGYN

Fucc

I just got a BB kiss

 

3:00 p.m.

 

FREYA 

has he told Faustus that? (curious) 

like actually sat the man down and said...hey...STOP! 

*snickers* 

cause my husband isn't always bright at times and can be very stubborn

 

BEX

I'm trying to get Rhett to eat so we can go see Santa. The aquarium is doing a scuba Santa and then a story time.

 

LUCIFER 

Perhaps I should try that, yes.

 

TRENT 

I know I can't stand it when Rebecca and Sebastian fight, but it's different for Lucifer because he's not seeing them both

 

SIGYN

Sounds fun!

 

TRENT 

sounds horrifying

 

REBECCA

 I really don't want to fight with Bash to be honest. (says softly) 

it causes unnecessary hardship for us all and I would like to be able to reach a point where we might actually be...friends..

 

SEBASTIAN

 Give me another 11 years and I'll think about it (he teases)

 

(4:15 p.m.) TRENT snuggles up with Sebastian and Luci

I love you both. I don't understand why you won't get along with her, Sebastian.

 

NATE

 If you're friendly with her, it'll make it easier on Trent (he says coaxingly)

 

[SNIP personal parenting discussion]

 

BEX

(4:51 p.m.) sorry, speaking of fits...Rhett is having one cause moms mood went downhill. Why things should cost money this year that didn't last year really upsets me.

 

SIGYN

The Santa thing cost?

 

BEX

I was going to take Rhett to see santa again at the aquarium cause they were doing storytime, and stuff for kids. I registered on FB and all cause it was in the events pages. We got there, Rhett was excited...but turns out that it costs money this year to do so and I didn't have it so when he saw we were leaving, he cried....I still feel terrible...

 

SIGYN

That's fucked up

They should have announced on the page that it would cost

 

[8-minute video chat ending at 5:14 p.m.]

 

BEX, 5:30 p.m.

Gonna hop in shower really fast now that ruetts down. Brb

 

(6:26 p.m.) SEBASTIAN clinging to his boys

 

SIGYN, 6:50 p.m.

So something fucked up just happened

Loki came in to cuddle and said he will cuddle me to make me feel better but then implied he is thinking of leaving because "we are disgusted with each other". I asked if he's disgusted with me and he said "not really but you're disgusted with me". I didn't say anything then he said he's going to "make a decision" on what to do, implying he might leave me (he's done this before) and that he is losing interest in me. I asked why and he said because I'm losing interest in him. I said I'm not, I give him hugs and kisses all the time. He said that means nothing. Then he said again that he's cuddling with me to make me feel better and that he's going to treat cuddling like I treat sex, like it's something to appease me but doesn't mean anything to him.

 

BEX

Wait...WHAT!? 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Oh hun, you so don't need that type of person or attitude in your life. Not if he is going to blame everything on you.

Cuddling to please you?! What type of BS is that!

 

SIGYN

He also said that he's stopped making sexual comments and stopped groping me like.... okay? congrats for average behavior?

 

BEX

wh---

I mean...

 

SIGYN

I don't care if he leaves but I don't want him to take the baby.

 

BEX

*brain skitzs out a second*

 

SIGYN

Bex, I just found out that not 4 but closer to 8-10 of my friends died within the past few years. I'm still reeling. How am I going to be in the mood after that.

 

BEX

I am losing interest in you cause you are losing interest in me? WHAT THE EVER LOVING FUCK!

 

SIGYN

Eh, he's trying to guilt me or panic me into fucking him so he doesn't leave

 

BEX

I am SOOOOOO disappointed in him right now.

No...disappointed isn't even the word

I can't....I just...UGH! He makes me want to throw something....

are YOU ok? *hugs*

 

SIGYN

Agreed, but I'm not displaying emotion right now because I don't want him using it against me to try to claim I'm an unfit mother

 

BEX

I mean, how are you handling this?

 

SIGYN

I'm upset but I can't react where he can see it.

[SNIP parenting discussion]

(7:00 p.m.) He's upset that I'm more attracted to "fictional characters" than I am to him

 

BEX

my thoughts stopped again....words...I know them....so mad....he stupid...!!

 

SIGYN

Bitch at least Trent is nice

Yeah, he does this every so often. I'm disappointed. I thought he'd be more stable after we had a baby but he's lapsing into throwing passive aggressive tantrums when he doesn't get his way.

 

BEX

Oh boo hoo! The key is in the words, you moron! (him) FICTIONAL!!!!

I know not to us...but sheesh

 

SIGYN

I used to have meltdowns over it, but again, I have to be stable for Lucius.

 

BEX

Honey, men like that...never grow up. I am sorry to say so. They never get stable. Ever. Even with a big responsibility like a child, sure, they'll seem like they will for a few months, but then get right back in their ways.

you deserve BETTER

and honestly, the whole "Come for a visit" here thing is still open!

 

SIGYN

So, okay.

I need to make sure that if he does walk out, Lucius stays with me. I do not care if Loki is out of the picture, I mean, I might have to rearrange some things with social security but that's a minor hassle compared to this attempt at manipulation.

In order to visit, I need to update some documents with the government and that costs money that I don't currently have, but I am going to get that ball rolling hopefully not too soon after the beginning of the year.

 

BEX

If I can help, let me know. With anything!

 

SIGYN

I didn't let Loki be part of the pregnancy because I was afraid of shit like this, honestly, and he did step up when I was in the hospital. He was fine for a while and now he's being a dick because he's not getting his wet

I don't actually have a problem with sex as much anymore, but I am NOT rewarding bad behavior

 

BEX

have you told him this? Or talked about it with your therapist?

I totally get you.

 

SIGYN

I give in "just this once" he's gonna think he can get me to shag him by threatening to leave.

Haha yes

But he denies that's what he's doing

 

BEX

but he is though! That's manipulation as well.

 

SIGYN

The way my characters argue with your characters when they want to be annoying? That circular bullshit? That is what Loki does.

 

BEX

I'd keep a journal...or try and record whenever you 'argue' or disagree. That way, if things get really ugly and he tries to take Lucius, you have proof that says this is what he did, this is what he said

 

SIGYN

I have an appointment tomorrow at 2 to speak with my therapist. I texted her all of this.

Well, that's also why I text you and Piffy about it. You're on Messenger and she's on Discord.

 

BEX

screenshots. Hehehe

 

SIGYN

I have records on two different clients in that case

 

BEX

he's being a royal ass, is what he's being. Ugh!

 

SIGYN

I agree

 

BEX

I am sorry hun. I wish i could help more.

 

SIGYN

Thanks, actually, talking about it is a huge help!

He's also acting like I get IBS on purpose to avoid sleeping with him

 

BEX

what! That's.... *calms and breathes*

 

SIGYN

🐂💩

 

BEX

is he really THAT bad? I mean really...

Sure, I will have a serious problem in my bowels today...lets do that. that sounds like fun!

Baw!

 

SIGYN

"ugh you're ALWAYS sick"

"Do you have diarrhea EVERY DAY"

"of COURSE you can't today because your stomach hurts AGAIN"

b i t c h

 

BEX

Life isn't all about sex!

maybe he should see a therapist for that. 😛

 

SIGYN

He thinks I should mention to my therapist that I have sexual dysfunction

...which I don't.

 

BEX

no, you don't. You can't help it if you don't feel well.

 

SIGYN

I am hoping she will ask him if there's other ways he can feel close to me without sex.

 

BEX

I just wanna punch him in his big dummie head! 😛

 

SIGYN

Same

 

BEX

hint at that. tell her you want her to ask that

 

SIGYN

She probably will. She's asked me, and I said I'm not the person to ask about that.

 

NATE

 He also thinks he's not a vanilla but he definitely is.

 

BEX

Ugh!

I don't know what to say....

 

SIGYN

yeah I'm not into all the same things my characters are, but I'm into a LOT of things he isn't.

 

SEBASTIAN 

He's also one of those guys who won't shut up during. It's annoying.

Moan, cuss, that's fine, but FFS don't deliver a monologue

 

BEX

NO!

He mononlogues?

oh god!

 

TRENT 

I guarantee if I told Rebecca about how good her lady parts felt and the exact things I could feel them doing to my man bits, for 20 straight minutes, that would be the last time we ever had sex.

 

SEBASTIAN 

oh it's SO awkward, especially when admin "fades out" and it's Nathaniel or me out... it's like, "sir I'm a man right now"

 

SIGYN

He doesn't like buttsecks, which... okay fine, everyone's mileage varies, NBD

but please I do not want to hear the word "vagina" a hundred times during sex

I wear earplugs and then he gets offended because he assumes I'm fantasizing about our boys

 

NATE

 which we are

 

SIGYN

But still!

He claims he doesn't feel connected to me but he's not really doing anything to foster a connection. Everything he's doing is just driving me further away and when I call him on it I get bullshitted in return. I feel like a bright, thriving rose that's been brought into a house of dark energy to just wither and die.

 

BEX

Then you know what you have to do, hun. It's hard sometimes to take that first step, but for you, as well as for Lucius, you have to do it. Don't let him do this to you. No withering and dying aloud!

 

SIGYN

I'm compiling a list of options, pros, cons, backup plans, etc in my head and always have been. I'm just annoyed and venting at the moment

 

LUCIFER, with Sebastian in his lap, sits closer to Xander so they can have contact too

 SEBASTIAN 🥰

 

FAUSTUS

We'll never let it get that bad for us. (speaking of himself/Freya; Trent/Rebecca; etc.)

 

SIGYN

CUTEcius is in his bed sleeping peacefully right now. I would take him to my dad's tomorrow but we have therapy at 2, which I asked for because *waves arms*

 

BEX

Awww...cutie pie. ♥ ♥ ♥

yea, I still 'arguing' with Rhett atm. lol Should have been asleep an hur ago.

 

SIGYN

Bad Rhett omg

 

BEX

right. bad little danger noodle. Lol

 

SIGYN

yeah lol

 

SEBASTIAN 

We don't let it get that bad, ever, but...

 

SIGYN

(meaning relationships not babies LOL)

(toddlers gonna toddler)

 

SEBASTIAN shrugs and leaves

 

SIGYN, 8:21 p.m.

when I hear Danger Noodle I think snake

snakes are adorable

🐍

(8:39 p.m.) [snip something for Rebecca’s look book from Trent]

(8:53 p.m.) //alright, I guess we're dropping off here. Sebastian left cause he's sad about Xander; Trent's going with him tonight 😆 Everyone else will prolly be here tomorrow

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